Today while one friend emailed me asking for a link to the template I used to document the kid's Christmas gifts, another directed me to a blog with this written about my original post:
As I finally make my way around my favourite beloved blogs and read up on everyone's Christmas ...I do not like, nor encourage, a verbal listing of 'gifts got' from my children, and whilst adults are adults and can obviously do as they wish, especially on their own blogs, its nice not to see a look what I got entire list kind of post. Sure, tell me {'me' as in the whole world out there} about a funny gift, a super amazing extra special gift, or whatever, I love reading/hearing about them. but dont brag, dont brag on your childs behalf....blurgh, dont you hate that? I do , and that - not via my camera but via my blog- is my point of view!....seriously, I rock dontcha think? LOL LOL........
So yeah, I know the person that wrote this (at least through cyber world), and yeah I'm 99% sure it was directed at me. Sadly, this same person has been mocking me on her blog for years about everything from the scrapbook pages I used to create, to the birthday parties I throw and favors I make, to the pictures I'm learning to take. She wrote pretty much the same thing last year after I posted the kid's 2007 Christmas wishlist. And here's something she wrote the day after I posted my picture of Gracie's gymnastics equipment:
I hate the flash so much, - on camera or off, that I stuck to just my trusty 50mm lens all day with no flash. medium ISO, sometimes higher. As a result not all my pictures are crisp sharp. I dont mind. I like this in fact. I love movement blur and real natural light. Its all back to my mantra of 'its all about the everyday'. not posed, not set up, and not perfect. Because it wasnt like that, it was loud, busy, crazy, crowded, silly, and FULL so why should the photos show it any other way?
I wanted to reply that I didn't use a flash, on camera or off, also stuck with my trusty 50mm lens with no flash, medium ISO (sometimes higher - LOL) and that the basement wasn't posed or set up (for anyone other than Gracie). That's really how our basement looks. All the time. But I didn't say anything. And I usually wouldn't acknowledge her insults, especially here, except that I thought if there was someone else out there who thinks listing Christmas gifts on a personal blog is "bragging", I'd set the record straight.
This blog is my own little place in cyperspace to share the daily lives of my children with our friends and family. Many Most of who live very far away. If it sometimes comes off as bragging, so be it. Besides, is that so wrong? I'm incredibly proud of my children and am not ashamed of the fact that, by the Grace of God, they're smart, healthy, talented, beautiful, and we have good jobs that enable us to provide them with (most) of the things and opportunities they want. The people who this blog is intended for actually *do* have an interest in knowing what Santa brought and wouldn't be jealous by it.
Additionally, documenting the gifts is a great way to remember what everyone was interested in this year. I would LOVE to know what I got for Christmas as a child. Sadly, the only things I remember are a green wooden kitchen set my aunt made for me and a brass bed that I BEGGED Santa to bring me. This blog is my own way of trying to document those sorts of things for my children and share them with others, no matter how rose-colored my glasses may be. I just can't imagine living life through eyes where everything is so negative and filled with hate...under the guise of being "all knowing" and so "enlightened".